About Us
Meet Rob (He/Him)
Certified Life Coach Practitioner
I’m Rob Langley—coach, confidant, and unapologetic champion of relationships lived on your own terms.
A few years ago, when I first stepped into Ethical Non-Monogamy (my flavour is polyamory), I noticed a painful gap in the UK: plenty of podcasts and Reddit threads, but almost no one offering structured, professional coaching for the real-life messiness of ENM. I wanted practical tools, not just theory; a coach who spoke my language, not a therapist who
tip-toed around the topic. That coach didn’t exist—so I became him.
What drives me
- Radical authenticity—helping you name what you truly want, even if it scares you.
- Clear, compassionate communication—turning tense “we need to talk” moments into connective conversations.
- Designing relationships intentionally—whether that means nesting partners, comet lovers, or anything in between.
What I bring to the table
- Archology aligned coaching methods spliced with lived ENM Polyamorous experience.
- A UK perspective—grounded in the realities of British culture.
- Zero judgement. Full curiosity. We’ll question norms together and keep what actually serves you.
Who I work with
- Newcomers dipping a toe into consensual non-monogamy & Polyamory.
- Seasoned ENM or Polyamorous individuals seeking sharper self-insight, clearer agreements, and stronger conflict-repair skills.
- Monogamous folks exploring the “what if…?” without blowing up the foundation.
- All genders, LGBTQ+ communities, and folks across every ethical framework and romantic orientation, celebrating every intersectional story.
If you’re ready to replace guess-work with growth-work, let’s talk. Your relationship structure isn’t a problem to fix—it’s a canvas to create on.
Personal Growth & Empowering Your Relationships
Personal growth and empowered relationships go hand in hand—when you invest in yourself, you naturally bring more clarity, confidence, and depth to your connections.
Growth isn’t just about self-improvement; it’s about understanding your values, communicating authentically, and embracing vulnerability with trust.
Your relationships flourish when built on mutual respect, honesty, and intentionality.
Whether navigating ethical non-monogamy or strengthening a partnership, empowerment comes from aligning with your truth and fostering open dialogue.
Every step forward in self-awareness is a step toward deeper, more fulfilling relationships